Summer sounds like a dream — no school bells, no homework, nowhere to be. But if you’re a foster parent, you know that too much unstructured time can quickly go sideways. When routines disappear and boredom sets in, even the most patient households can feel the pressure!
We’re here to tell you that keeping kids engaged doesn’t have to cost much. Here are some simple, low-cost ideas to help the summer feel a little more peaceful and a lot more fun.
Build a Loose Routine (Emphasis on Loose)
Kids thrive on predictability, and foster children especially benefit from knowing what comes next. You don’t need a minute-by-minute schedule, just a general flow to the day. Something like: morning free time, midday activity, afternoon outdoor time, and evening wind-down. Keeping the bones of a routine in place over summer can prevent a lot of the restlessness that leads to big feelings and bigger meltdowns.
Stock a Boredom Bin
This one’s a game changer! Put together a simple box or bin filled with low-cost activity supplies — think coloring books, craft supplies, playing cards, puzzles, sidewalk chalk, or small building sets. When a child says “I’m bored,” they get to pick something from the bin. It hands the choice back to them, which kids love, and it saves you from having to come up with something on the spot every single time.
Choices For Life Tip: Dollar stores and discount retailers are great for stocking this without breaking the bank.
Take Advantage of Free Community Resources
Many libraries, parks, and recreation centers offer free or low-cost summer programming specifically designed for kids. Summer reading programs, free movie days, outdoor concerts, and community splash pads are all worth looking into in your area. Getting out of the house even for an hour can reset the energy in a big way.
Make Chores Feel Like a Game
Yes, really. Kids who are involved in the household tend to feel more connected to it. Turning small tasks into challenges (Think who can fold laundry fastest, who can sweep their area cleanest.) gives kids something to focus on and a sense of accomplishment when they finish. It’s not about perfection; it’s about participation.
Plan One Simple “Thing” Per Week
It doesn’t have to be elaborate. A trip to a local park you’ve never been to, a homemade pizza night, a backyard water balloon afternoon — having one small thing to look forward to each week gives kids something to anticipate and talk about. Anticipation is half the fun!
Summer doesn’t have to be a countdown to September. With a little structure and a lot of creativity, it can actually be one of the best seasons for building connections with the kids in your home.
You Don’t Have to Have All the Answers!
If you ever have questions about supporting the children in your care, through summer or any season, Choices For Life is here to help every step of the way! Reach out today.